Igrot Kodesh · Letter 6743 — Faith & Bitachon
Volume 18 · Letter 240
By the grace of Hashem*,
3 Adar Sheni* 5719,
Brooklyn,
Blessings and greetings,
I received, through the intermediary of the Rav, distinguished Chassid* who fears Hashem*, of many accomplishments, Rav Yehudah Tzvi Fogelman (note 1: Emissary of the Rebbe* in Worcester. See, on his subject, Letter no. 6822), a request for blessing for you and for your husband. At a propitious moment, your names will be mentioned at the holy resting place of my father-in-law, the Rebbe*, whose merit will protect us, so that you obtain the satisfaction of your needs.
Rav Fogelman also informed me of the terrible loss that has struck you, that of your son, may he rest in peace. The merit of your action, past and future, for the Jewish cause, as well as that of your husband, and, of course, your own conduct, based on the teachings of our holy Torah*, will enable the elevation of his soul and its rest in Gan Eden*. It is certain that every addition, strengthening the faith in Hashem* and leading one not to question what He does, will further the elevation of his soul.
It is surely unnecessary to tell you that a soul cannot be lost, Hashem* forbid, for a Jew possesses eternal existence. The difference (note 2: Between existence in this world and that of the hereafter) is therefore purely physical. In other words, our eyes of flesh do not allow us to observe the soul, once we no longer see the body. Nevertheless, the relationship that exists between parents and children is not limited to what is physical. It passes through the soul, which remains whole in all situations. It is therefore always possible to act for his good and for his elevation. For this, one must, as I have said, adopt conduct based on the Torah*, strengthen one's trust in Hashem*, achieve the greatest calm and good morale, for Hashem* is the Essence of good.
It would be good to have your husband's Tefillin* checked, as well as the Mezuzos* of your house, to ensure that they are all kosher, in accordance with the Halachah*. Furthermore, you surely observe the custom of Jewish women which consists of giving Tzedakah* before lighting the candles, on the eve of Shabbos* and the festivals. You will do the same also during the week, on Mondays and Thursdays. You will then give a few cents to Tzedakah*. But above all, as I have said, you will cease to question (note 3: What happened, the passing of the son). If you take the firm resolution to act in this way, Hashem* will grant you success and you will realize it in your life. With my blessing to convey good news,
For the Rebbe Shlita*,
the secretary,